Trinity Episcopal Church, Parkersburg, West Virginia
Week of February 2, 1999
(Last updated 09/12/99)

Most of the people at Chicago’s Children’s Hospital did not know her name. They just knew her as the sweet elderly lady in the vivid red suit who wanted to make sure that every sick child had a teddy bear to hug and caress. She kept bringing the stuffed animals, purchased with her own money, to give to ailing children. That is why she was simply called The Teddy Bear Lady.

Her name was Gladys Holm, a retired secretary for an insurance company, who lived alone in a tiny apartment in Evanston. It wasn’t that she couldn’t afford better, although… no one except her attorney and stockbroker knew she was quite wealthy.

When she died at age 86, she had a portfolio worth over $18 million. She had never married and had no heirs. Her will simply directed that the bulk of her estate be given to The Children’s Memorial Hospital. Her gift was to go to medical research so that new methods of treating sick or disabled children might be developed.

The hospital authorities were absolutely shocked by the news. No one had the slightest idea that the tall happy woman delivering teddy bears to ailing children had such wealth. As they began to piece together more of her life’s story, they discovered something else. They learned the gifts of teddy bears were really a ruse. She gave away teddy bears to learn more about the financial resources of the families of the children. When she learned that parents did not have hospitalization or enough to cover medical expenses, she very quietly had taken care of their bills.

One wonders if Gladys Holm was simply putting into practice what the One known as the Great Physician had recommended: "When you give… sound no trumpet before you… When you give… do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your gift may be in secret…"

At the hospital’s memorial service for Gladys, someone had put a teddy bear on every chair.


 Faith @ 5th Banner

Dear Sisters & Brothers in Christ,

It was such a treat to see a gaggle of our very people bringing freshly baked bread up the aisle at the 10:30 service this past Sunday morning. They had spent their church school time in the kitchen working hard to offer this gift that it might become the Body of Christ. [Kudos to Carol and Doug Adams who hosted Coffee Hours — preparing this event as little ones dashed and darted between legs and out doors.]

Five loaves started down the aisle and four made it to the altar! One found a new "incarnation" as a stand in for a soccer ball. And, looking up as our little ones scurried back to their seats, there were more than a few damp eyes in the house.

I don’t have to tell you, but an offering like this is a beautiful thing. It resonates deeply with the life of the early church when the offertory was a chance for people to give sacrificially and sacramentally by offering whatever they had — a chicken, some bread, wine, fruit, eggs, money, etc. In fact, what we now call the communion rail or altar rail began as a fence to keep the chickens, etc., out of the sanctuary and off of the altar. I invite anyone so inclined so talk with me about making "real" bread for any service.

The use of real bread gave me the chance to teach our young people about intinction (dipping the bread in the wine). It is a teaching moment I would like to share with the rest of you.

One may choose to intinct for a variety of reasons. (This article is not about the reasons!) If this is your choice there are several things to consider.

It was, and is, a very big deal that Jesus used a common cup at the Last Supper. Everyone, no matter what their station in life or seat at the table got to drink from the host’s cup. This raised everyone to the level and honor of the host — a very big deal. It also meant that the community was a community of equals bound to their Lord in this sharing. Simply put, it made those who were many one! So, I encourage intinction from the common (large) chalice.

How does one intinct? It is not quite as simplistic as one might think. First, intinction is not dunking. The best and most proper way to intinct is to leave the bread plainly visible on the palm of your hand; all the chalice bearer to pick it up, rest it on the inside of the chalice and with a tipping motion let the wine come to the bread. Almost without exception, this prevents crumb "floaties" (not nice for the person who next drinks from the chalice) no matter what type of bread is being used. It also keeps wayward fingers from plunging into the wine. Then the chalice bearer places the bread on the communicants tongue (preferred), or hands it back to them.

Two reminders: 1) If you have a cold, etc., or if it is just your preference, please know that communion in one kind (receiving just bread) is full communion. It has been this way from the early days of the Church. (continued top of next page)

    Scott       


VESTRY HIGHLIGHTS

The Vestry met Monday, January 25 at 7 p.m. Highlights included the election of a new Sr. and Jr. Warden. Carol Olson and Jennifer Curry, respectively, were unanimously elected. Each Vestry person chose a committee on which they will serve for 1999. Trustee terms were clarified with Doug Adams servicing through 1999, Dan Ruley through 2000, and Hamp Fitcher through 2001. The internal audit for 1997 has been completed, and 1998’s audit will be underway soon. The Heart and Hand group has been active assisting the Douglas family with the recent loss. The Downtown Clergy Association is working on an ecumenical Stations of the Cross Service on Good Friday. Congregations would move to different churches during the service.


SOUPER BOWL SUNDAY COLLECTION TOTALED $276! The proceeds will be divided between Trinity’s Food Closet and the Old Man Rivers Mission, a mobile kitchen project.


A PRAYER FOR TODAY…

Whatever happens today, Lord, help us to remember your presence. If we find ourselves in the shadows of disappointment or rejection or pain, let us see your comforting light. If we are in the radiant light of success or acceptance or wholeness, may we acknowledge your providence and grace. Wherever we are, grant us the assurance of your nearness.

Those who stare up to admire their own halo are apt to create nothing more than a pain in the neck – somebody else’s as well as their own.


FEBRUARY AT A GLANCE…

Friday, February 19 5:15 pm, Stations of the Cross (and every Friday thereafter during Lent)
Sunday, February 21 Pairs and Spares Bowling Party
Monday, February 22 10:30 am, Mustard Seeds meeting
Wednesday, February 24 9:30 am – Noon, "A Quiet Morning in Lent" followed by the Eucharist at 12:10 pm
February 26-28 Diocesan Lenten Retreat at Peterkin
Sunday, February 28 Deanery Meeting for Convention Delegates and Clergy at St. Mary’s, 3:00 pm
Wednesday, March 3 "Good For You Outside, Good For You Inside"
Our Lenten Evenings begin at 6:00 pm with
Evening Prayer
Dinner 6:15
This week’s guest, Susan Maluski of Faithlink
Wednesday, March 10 "Good For You Outside, Good For You Inside"
Our Lenten Evenings begin at 6:00 pm with
Evening Prayer
Dinner 6:15
This week’s guest, Old Man Rivers of
Old Man Rivers Mission on the Southside


February 15, 1999

 To our Family at Trinity,

We would like to take this opportunity to thank each of you who opened your hearts to us during our recent time of need. Although we lost many things that were dear to us, we are still fortunate in many ways. After the first fire, we were able to save almost all of our clothing as well as some heirloom china and other kitchen pieces. We can be thankful for this and, most importantly, that at no time have we been in any physical danger from any of what happened to us.

Beginning on the night of the first fire and continuing through the Saturday morning nearly three weeks later when we stood together with several of you and watched as the house burned for the second time, the love that our Trinity family has shown to us has been overwhelming. Without this love and support, we may not have found the strength and the will to continue on in this place. With it, we will not only be able to carry on but we will forever have a different feeling about the importance of opening our hearts to those who are in need.

For all of you who have helped in any way, those known to us and those unknown to us, we thank you for your outpouring of love and support and prayers.

Bill and Martha Douglas

Connie’s Corner

Here are some other prayers you may be interested in using in your families. Many of the following are graces used at Peterkin and prayers I have come across here and there. Please feel free to share some of your family traditions with me and one another.

Be present at our table Lord. Be here and everywhere adored.
These mercies bless and grant that we May feast in Fellowship with Thee. Amen.

Some have meat and cannot eat Others eat that want it
But we have meat, and we eat So oh Lord, be thank it. Amen

Oh the Lord is good to me, And so I thank the Lord
For giving me the things I need, The Sun and the Rain and the appleseed
The Lord is good to me. Amen

From ghoulies and ghosties and long leggity beasties,
And other things that go bump in the night. Good Lord, deliver us. Amen.

Peace,   Connie

In Our Parish Prayers

Please hold these people, events and circumstances in your daily prayers. Also, we encourage you to always say a prayer for those unknown persons who have no one to pray for them. By-the-way, please remember to renew prayer requests weekly.

Tom Patrick, Charlotte Martin, Larry Bellew, Nellie Taylor, Terri Hindman, Alex Northrup, Mary Carolyn & Bill Mildren, Sr., Donna Tyo, Ruth Greer, Ray Hofmann, Mazie Smith, Betty Rodda, Mary Glen Rice, Bob Lawrence-Berrey, Maggie Crofton, Mary Harlow, Butch Shaver, Carr Leavitt, Esber Tweel (priest) and Rocky Rachell (priest), Gladys Fitcher, Helen Waterman.

This week we offer prayers of thanksgiving for the calling of a new Missioner to the Ohio Valley Cluster. The Reverend Richard Kellogg will begin his work in the cluster on March 1st..

Ministers for Sunday, February 2, 1999

Chalice Bearers: Charlotte Bee, Carol Olson, Susie Fitcher, Jennifer Currey
Lectors: Charlotte Bee, Jennifer Currey, Lee Fritch, Anna Zivkovich
Ushers: Craig Curry, Jack Dowling, Bill Eason, Hampden Fitcher
Acolytes: To Be Announced
Coffee Hour Hosts: Linda & Bob Brantner

Proper for the Epiphany 5
Habakkuk 3:1-6, 17-19 Psalm 27 1 Corinthians 2:1-11 Matthew 5:13:20

Altar Guild for January: Ellsmore Northrup, Betsy Curry, Becky Alkire

Eat Well Before Lent!

Lasagna Supper —

Mark your calendars now for the Wednesday, February 10th for the 6:00 p.m. Lasagna Supper. A special program is in the works, and there will be a sign-up sheet in on the bulletin board soon! One liter carafes for beverages are needed for this event. Please see Lynette Neilson or Shirley Lawrence-Berrey.

ALSO …

A SHROVE TUESDAY PANCAKE SUPPER-
It will be held on Tuesday, February 16th from 5:00 pm until 7:00 pm in Trinity Hall. Volunteers are needed. Contact Betsy Curry for details. Hey Guys, your job to cook for this one, so get on the phone to Betsy.

Outreach
Items of the Month

  • Shampoo
  • Combs & Brushes
  • Peanut Butter
  • Canned Meat

Please place in basket at the back of the church


Now it the time!

Bring last year’s palms to become this years ashes. By Feb. 14th please.

The Rector Discretionary Fund…

The first Sunday of each month, the loose offering and any offerings so designated goes to the Rector Discretionary Fund. Discretionary funds are primarily used to assist those in need and for the spread of the Kingdom. The use of the fund is "at the discretion" of the Rector who administers it and thus the name. Customarily, the Discretionary Funds’ use is confidential.

God promised us a smooth landing, not a smooth sailing…

For Young People and those who Love them

The Father has loved us so much!

He loved us so much that we are called children of God. I John 3:1

God Loves You.
Dear God,
Is the Bible Your great big valentine to me?
Thanks for loving me

Even when I’m not very lovable.
Thanks for loving me
Even if I don’t love You.
Thanks for loving me
Every minute of every day.
Please help me love You
the way You love me.

As printed in God’s Little Devotional Book for Kids, by V. Gilbert Beers


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